Time and time again we have keep reminding ourself that the road of life is full of trial and error…
Yes, Errors sucks.. But think about it for a sec, without these errors, would we become who we are today?
An easy example would be when you were a kid you would just touch anything that is shiny in this world and suddenly you put a finger on a hot kettle.. I can at least bet that you will not do what you did again..
ok la.. some slow a bit.. takes a few more times.. :P.. But hey, sooner or later, we’ll learn eventually.. 🙂
It’s really up to an individual if he or she wants to keep sitting down and whine about the errors or the unhappiness that have in their life or to actually stand back up after a hard fall, swipe of the dust and keep walking.. 🙂
The hard cold truth is, no one can be there to point you to a path to walk.. or to stand back up for you when shit happens..
BUT, friends, family or even strangers will always and always be there and more than happy to give you a hand to help you back up or to lend you a hug.. however, towards the end, It is only we ourself that can decide what we want to do…
REMEMBER, there is NO rule in life that forbids us from being sad, or cry or even feel “suckie” once in a while.. It’s only human to have emotions..we have every rights to express our feelings..
But after a while, one would just have to be reminded that there are better things in that journey to be remembered… regardless if its memories, an item, a photograph, a quote even that you have stumble upon during that walk, its WORTH living up for…
Learn to enjoy and to smile at the smallest things in life that in front of us..
I think somehow or rather, we individuals are actors ourself once in a while.. call it anything you want, either lying to yourself or just a way to not let people know what we are going through.. We learn to smile at the hardest moments in life to others but knowing it hurts inside out.. to be able to put a mask up is a skill..
Though, I am not saying its wrong to do, for whatever reason it is that we humans do that, know that the effort is not left empty.. you might never know who was actually really glad to see your smile or brighten up just cause that was the 1st smile they have seen all day… May it be the cashier on the counter, or a friend you said hi to..
It doesn’t matter if one is trying to go through a death of a loved one, a hard break up, family problem, or just a plain shitty day, if some one is to say that they are able to FORGET everything and move on is a LIE…
To me, its okay to remember all of this once in while.. sometimes, it can just be for the simple reason..
As simple as,
To remember a death of a loved one just so we know they are not forgotten,
Remembering a hard break up just so one can smile at the awesome things that happened and it was because it happened instead of it being over,
Remembering that you are worth much more than anything that has happened,
or to even remember mistakes just so we don’t repeat them..
~Its the road that we choose, that sums up our day~